AILO’s Relationship Science
Decoding innate human behavior patterns to measure compatibility.
The Foundation
20+ years of research•500K+ data points•14K+ helped
The Result
Just released•1,000+ matching•5 marriages
What you think you want isn’t always what you need.
We connect the dots.
The Problem
Modern Dating Wasn’t Designed to Work
of relationships fail within 18 months from hidden incompatibilities.
of singles say shared values are the hardest thing to find.
average time to discover incompatibilities, after you’re already invested.
AILO doesn’t wait for conflicts to surface.
We reveal the risks before the first date.
How the Science Works
Your assessment answers are translated through AILO’s advanced methodology, measuring how natural tendencies express themselves.
Natural vs. Learned Talents
Every person has a natural design: traits they were born with that define how they show up, communicate, and connect. These are different from learned behaviors, which are adaptations shaped by environment. AILO measures the natural design, because that’s what determines long-term compatibility.
Zannah Hackett Ph.D.
Chief Science Officer, AILO
The Assessment
Why We Ask What We Ask
Every question maps to one of three dimensions.
Perception
Relates to what motivates and energizes you.
Reality
Reveals your lifestyle choices and tolerance levels.
Expression
Realizes your natural dispositions and behavior.
Needs Insight
How You Show Up Authentically
Side-by-Side Needs Insight
Natural Way of Being
How you naturally act and show up.
Essence of Motivation
What drives your confidence and purpose.
Surrounding Preferences
Environments where you feel at home.
Key to Connection
What makes you present and engaged.
The Current Season
How your priorities align at this stage of life.
Lens of Life
Your core perspective on daily decisions.
See how you each show up side by side, so you understand where you align and where you differ, before the first conversation.
Compatibility Score
How We Calculate Your Match
6 Compatibility Pillars
Comfort
Where your lifestyle preferences align.
Objectives
What drives innate behavior and motivation.
Connection
How you naturally open up to each other.
Spark
What pulls you in & sustains your attraction.
Perception
How you perceive the world around you.
Timing
What season of life you're experiencing.
Each category generates its own score. Your overall compatibility is calculated from all six, so every dimension influences the final match.
Compatibility Threshold
Why 70% Is the Starting Line
Indicates a balance of similarities and differences to keep the connection alive.
A gradual potential for misalignment, influencing long-term growth.
True compatibility happens when two distinct natures interact dynamically, creating both harmony and curiosity.
Built on Data. Proven in Practice.
Real research. Real people. Real outcomes.
A Message for You by AILO Founder Haleh Gianni
“There is more to us than just a photo on a profile.”
Your time back.
No more hours wasted on dead-end dates.
Fewer dates. Better odds.
Meet people who actually fit, not just anyone nearby.
Clarity over confusion.
Learn more insight to increase your chance at lasting love.
A foundation, not a gamble.
Start relationships with understanding, not just hope.
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